Here we go, we are really piecing!

[broken5150]

Hi Destiny!

It warms the heart to hear that have reached the point of reconciliation and piecing. You are at the point the most of us hope to get to one day.

When I saw your post, I went to your original thread and read about your situation. Its similar to mine. My WAW had lost some weight, had a tummy tuck and breast enhancement. Once this happened, her character changed.

She started posting herself all over Facebook and started to crave the single life. I started noticing that intimacy was decreasing and she was becoming very careless of me. Soon after, there was a tragedy in my home. A car came crashing into my living room killing two young boys. I think this made her snap. One month later, she was asking me to leave our home. Her replay behaviors have been brutal! Threats of restraining orders ( even though I never came near her), I put my hand on her back and she said that if I ever touched her again, she would call rape, name calling, verbal bashing, you name it, she did it.

Fast fwd a year later of this torture, OM comes in to picture. W is 38, OM is 25. She doesn’t allow me in her home and now she is letting OM come in and play with my kids! Now, she seems to be pushing harder for the divorce even though she claims they are just friends.

Please view my posts for more details.

So my questions to you are, how bad was your husband’s replay stage?

Was there a time that you gave up hope?

What made him turn around and see the light?

Any helpful pointers will be great!

Of course, Destiny, I ask these questions VERY respectfully. You don’t have to answer if you don’t want to.

Thanks!