Originally Posted By: realormakebeliev

I guess my problem with this is that it means a guarantee of not getting back together for the term of the lease- at least a year from everything I've looked at. And he won't offer anything in terms of what I should be looking for; will he cover utilities, for how long, etc. Part of me says, take it and shut up, the other part of me wants me to tell him to kiss my rear end, I'll figure it out for myself.

You can always handle it as a plan B and keep looking for yourself. Because you sign a year's lease is no guarantee you will or will not get back together. Many apartment complexes will only hold you liable for as many months as it takes to re-rent the apartment. The spiritual side of me says that if it's God's will for you to get back together, He will find a way for you to get out of your lease.

Originally Posted By: realormakebeliev

Does anyone know if I accept this offer now, will that affect a D if it happens? Setting precedence?

My suggestion here is to burn a free consultation with an atty. Just because you talk to one doesn't mean you have to take any action nor does it mean you have to hire that particular atty.


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