For those following my situation here is the advice given:
1) Don't give in to the temptation to rescue ( or mother). 2)Don't have expectations too low or too high...aim for what's realistic, because we tend to get what we expect. ( Research shows we modify OUR behaviour on what our expectations are; good or bad. 3)Keep living your life as if the WAS is not coming back.
Peace, out.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.