Agree with NTXSD, and the others. RE: the ADs. Shouldn't be controversial. It's just a personal decision. If you think you might need some help see your GP or make an appointment with an IC (ask if their practice can perscribe, many can't and thus don't mention them as options). Get some objective advice. Just two words of wisdom - first, if you opt to explore this with the an IC, start NOW. In some areas the waitlist is weeks or months long (for the good ones anyway) and the medication, if you opt for that, takes time to work. Second, think about whether or not to mention this to your W. Unless you know she'd be supportive and accepting, might be better keep it to yourself for now. Not advocating either way.....just offering up my mistakes to learn from....