Also text messages are another thing that confuse me. Before the EA we used to text eachother a lot and call when he is at work and I am at home homeschooling the kids, etc. That stopped during the EA. Now we text eachother and call a little again. I read I should not do that. But that is our norm, I am not doing it anymore than normal.
I am just so confused about what applies to me and what does not. I guess I am just confused because he complains he wants more affection, attention, etc and the advice here is that I should pull back a bit from giving that to him? I need him to end the EA completely and I know I need to do some of it to get that to happen but what?
