"In my mind, it's so easy for me to get upset with him even when he hasn't done anything wrong"
Anyone else ever do this?
How do I stop this mindset?
Yep^^^^^^^^I have done this many times. I believe you read Truegrit's post about accepting your S 100% as he/she is. And that when you try to change them it causes problems. That is what you and I do when we get angry at them. We are trying to change them. It doesn't work so stop getting mad at him.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
