I've researched all of the D regulations in PA. As I said, the original intent was to split as amicably as possible. I need to let her calm down before I bring up the subject again.

Thanks for all of your comments. I was close to getting sucked in yesterday, and as jb pointed out, perhaps the last e-mail contained more than it should have. But I had reached the point where I felt it needed to be said.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
BITS