It was only regarding the maintainence that I pay, telling me not to forget to pay it in the next few days, but she called when she could have texted.
I had the kids last night and she started to ask how they has been, etc, I told her I had bought our daughter some clothes, which she was interested about.
She asked if I was going to my AA meeting later, which I was am, then I just said I would call her after it to speak to the kids, she was fine about that also.
So although it was a nothing call, it was a call.
We spoke without tension, and it was all polite.
So I start again, try to maintain communication with the mother of my children, and will not get upset, or at least show it!!!
Time to relax about it all, I cannot control or influence anything that she does, I have to make myself happy, I have today bought a load of new clothes!!!, and trust that in time we will be back together again.
