I wouldn't recommend otherwise, but I am wondering... now that you've heard what you have from your W... you are honouring her request to hold off the D... why?
Your W's intentions may be clear... or not... in her own mind...
I think that the LBS holds back because we buy in to the WAS claim that the future is a terrible place if we do not comply...
The general truth is, rational people eventually reflect and forgive and work on broken Rs after a period of time passes... no matter how bad things get...
You... will probably always be willing... down the road...
Your W...? Who knows...
She's not ready to change... she is plowing ahead... and asked you to stop (slow down) from protecting yourself... and you have complied... and your soft, underbelly will remain unguarded...
Does that sound like a good idea, a request that has come from a "sound" mind...?
