Tbh, 25 told me this before, and it only sank in a little while back.
Yes, some sort if understanding is good, but you have no control over w, let her and life find the way, difficult I know, I had to keep telling myself outloud, STOP OBSESSING, IT'S NOT HELPING YOU
And I did, I still read stuff about MLC, but that's just me, I enjoy learning new things, BUT now this is second to GAL, the kids, friends/family and changing.
Difficult I know, but you must do it
The way forward is you first
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more