OK....got it. No call.
You know I just want to understand......what she is doing, why she's doing this, what she's thinking. She has never really explained it to me other than her reasons which don't seem that strong - as everyone we know says; they're not reasons to leave a marriage.
If I had an understanding then it would help me to make sense of this horrible situation.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011