So my W never responded to my email yesterday - probably didn't expect her to anyway.
I'm considering just giving her a quick call tonight to apologise for yesterday and I guess more reiterate the 'drop rope' position I should have be maintaining.
My DB Coach thinks being fully dark is not that essential for me, as she needs to see changes. I don't plan on calling her a lot or trying to see her, but rather than just hiding maybe I put myself out there more.
Any thoughts on a call tonight?
I promise it will be quick, I will end it first and there will be no R talk.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011