Without looking back yet, what I would change would be to be more detached, if that's possible. Not to let myself get sucked into too much contact too soon. MM and I were texting, talking, phoning almost every day...way too much! Especially at the beginning of a R when you don't know what kind of fruit loop you're dealing with yet. Mega dating for a short period is also not a great idea. It gets you too hyped up too soon. I would also follow MM's advice "my dear, go slow, relax and don't think so much" She has issues but is pretty smart too! And I'd also do whatever OT tells me to do no matter what...nah, I can't go that far lol!