Here are some examples:

She told me this evening that it is very hard for her to be in the same house with me.

"Me too. I don't think it is good for either of us. I feel bad for us both."

She told me this evening that her animosity grows toward me when she feels that I am lengthening the divorce process.

"I understand -- it is hard to feel loving toward someone if you feel they are getting in the way of very important things in your life."

She has told me that she is not interested in spending time with me.

"Yeah, it is hard on me too. Less stress is good. Let's figure out how to minimize the time while keeping things as easy for the kids as possible."

Best,
Oldtimer