Gunny, I am responding to your post in this new thread. Try and stick to one thread it makes it easier to follow.
Why push the divorce? Do you want the D? Seems a little counterintuitive to me for you to be posting here if you do. Actions speak louder than words. In this thread you tell her you don’t want the D then post about pushing it. If this is a tactic stop. Pursue this action only if this is what you want. IMO you’ll likely get it.
Time is usually your friend. Time for you to show your 180s are real. Time for you to build confidence and project it. Time for you to heal enough to deal with the chaos.
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I have been working very hard to keep things friendly, I told her a couple of times that no matter what happens, I will always be there for her and will be her friend.
It is important to keep interaction friendly. It is also important to project confidence calmly, to appear strong, to be the man she would be foolish to leave. IMO Telling her no matter what you’ll always be there waiting does not accomplish this. IMO she should see, see not hear about what she is leaving behind. See that it is better than what she is going to.
Six weeks is not much time. I do not think she will believe what she sees in that length of time. So if it helps go read Navy’s journey starting with the first thread. Of the posters on this board that I am familiar with his fits your request for one that has a LDR while DB’ing. Here is a link to get started. Settle in http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...500#Post2122500
Keep posting. Why “Gunny”
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
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