It seems like a lot of the techniques here are more geared toward those who are seperated already or completely distant.
My husband is still home because he has agreed to do counseling and give our marriage a try to see if we can recover. We are living as a married couple, doing all our normal things. I take care of the home, kids and him. He works. We do things as a family and go on "dates". We have counseling. We see our friends. The only thing wrong is there is the barrier of him not feeling like he loves me the same way as he used to and him clinging to talking with the girl he had the EA with.
Because of this I am not willing to not do the things I normally do for him, etc. I feel like I need to pull back with how much I reach out to him and do some 180's but it seems like some are not applicable because we are still together.
Can someone help me sort this out. I am planning to order the book next week when we have some money but in the mean time I only have what I can find on here.
