Val

Haven't posted to you before but read what you write to others and you are full of good wisdom.

Happy B-day! (belated)

The thing is. Recognizing significant dates is difficult for them.

It is anethema (sp?) to what they believe right now.

If we try to recognize it...it feels like pressure to them.

Best to just celebrate yourself. Fill the void of their not having recognized it. Or your desire of how nice it would be if they did.

Then you begin to be free of that...

Be well.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am