You sure can TAMF. I think I'm the president Jon and TAMF.
I would like to get 25's opinion on my post about the last couple of weeks. TAMF, I don't think in almost 3 years now I have completely detached. Correct.
you have done almost No detaching that I can see....
I have got to GAL, and such but I think about H every day, just not as much as I use to in the beginning. I don't know if it's because every couple of months he makes me feel like he is coming back around and then disappears and wants the D again.
You CHOOSE to hope b/c it's easier, IN THE SHORT RUN, than moving on with your life
and detaching...
but in the long run you are dragging this out AND ruining the chance that might exist for him to get well.
DETACH AND MOVE ON...and don't you dare ask for or care about what ANY of his family says to or about you.
I'd laugh it off at this point....
and protect your children from their father for now, for he is NOT good for or to them. He's deeply hurting them and you keep letting it happen.
Do NOT ask for anything from him.
Let the L's do their jobs and get some financial security & help.
AND GAL... this program works IF YOU WORK IT....but only if.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
