What's your question? He's a user with emotional problems not of your making which you have no control over. AND
He comes from a hatefilled nutty family. You got used and now you regret it. So, what is the question? Should you do more of the crazy stuff, or less?
hmmm, I say LESS...
Should you detach or stay heavily involved w/ people who are cruel and weird?
Would you care if they told you whether martians are in the US military? I hope not. That's how relevant their opinions are about everything as far as I'm concerned. THEY'RE NUTS...stop wanting or needing their approval!
And if your h is too weak and sick to see that they are weak/sick/cruel people, then he has their "virus" too...
avoid their virus. You cannot cure it but you can protect/vaccinate your kids against it...vaccinate by detaching. See them and your for what and who they are....
YES they are sick and cruel, AND SO is your h. His choices are terribly mean.
I've said it 5 times...All you can do is protect your kids and you.
Then you allow this nut to come into your life and sleep w/him based on ONE evening of vague regrets...
And what? If you keep letting this happen then you are not much healthier than he is.
So do better next time. YOU CAN DO BETTER... There'a s great saying in AA "Mistakes are Not tragedies, but dear God let me learn from them!"
Learn from this GF and don't repeat it.
Good riddance to the ill folks until if and when they get healthy.
Be happy...please. Stop worrying about what insane rumors are spread. Who cares?
There's a street person downtown who thinks I knew him in Venezuela...where I've never been.
I am NOT spending energy on him or his rumors about "us" in South America...
Same goes for your ill h and his crazy mean family.
Make sense?
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