Well Gang thanks for all the great ideas. But judging by the conversation we just had none of them are going to work. I got a new job today and my first day is actually on our Anniversary. I mentioned that I would be starting on the 10 th. and said not sure what the plans are for that day but might be compacted. Her expression whent blank and was like didnt think we were doing anything other than sit home. I replied well thought we would do something even if a few days early like Saturday night. She became very cold and said well not sure I feel like celebrating this year. Not much to really celebrate. Next thing I know we are in a full blown R chat and it went poorly. She said that I broke a trust that she isnt sure can be fixed or given back. The last thing she said before going to work (which this is a second job, that she wanted, I feel she is trying to be independant) was something like let me try and work this out my way. Not exact wording but close. After 4 months I am starting to lose all hope. Help.
