Wii: When you have settled down a bit I think you should go back and read this entire thread from the beginning. I want you to read what you wrote and read the advice we all gave you. I really think there is so much in there to learn. But don't do it for a couple of days - you're probably not ready to go there just yet.
It's much easier to sit on the sidelines and troubleshoot but don't ever forget that we were all cheerleading you as much as we could too.