Last night was a different story though. They showed up at the house and within 10 minutes they left. The W told me they are considering moving already! They have only been in their current apartment for three weeks. The new place will be significantly more expensive and the rent it will be about 60% of her take home pay. :-O
I shouldn't have given my opinion, but I couldn't help it. I told her that it didn't sound like a good idea. In an instant, she got visibly upset and told me that my comments are why we are divorcing. I told her I was just trying to help and she said she didn't need my help and that it was none of my business. She also said it was my "delivery" when I give my advice.
NTX - it looks like you received a big learning opportunity, no? Like lc4 mentioned, she pretty much gave you a 180 to do. I read this and jbnati 2.0 probably would have done the same thing. I also was just shaking my head. There goes the WAS again! All over the map! She obviously doesn't know what she wants. I'm sure I'm preaching to the choir here now, but this is where you have the chance to share in her excitement. Then - you can start shaking your head after she leaves. Heck, if you share in her excitement you may see her start to her question herself at that point.
You know what you did and you know what you need to do.
All over the map! 
