NEED ADVICE

[gunny]

Hello all, especially the more experienced souls on this board. I need advice. My sitch is that my wife will we leaving me on october 26 to start a new job in ohio, 600 miles away. We have been sep for 90 days but living in the same house. I dont want rehash the whole story of my sitch, (you can find it in my initial posts). She has been very clear that she wants a divorce, we are very amicable, we talk every few days about the subject, we have begun to divide finances, property etc. She said the other night that she loves me, carres for me, that I am a good man, but she does not want to be with me, for a number of valid reasons. I have been doing 189's GALING, validating etc, and have done a decent job on this, with some backslides. The whole discussin on when and who should file for thed is rather murky. It will certainly not be done by the time she leaves, and she will be staying on my Gov helath ins plan until such times as she finds gainful employment. Quesitin is should a push the issue of D, or just let it drop until she indicates she really wants it?
We had a good marriage, Any and all advice is welocome thanks very much