IS is sounds like you are doing better today . Hope I'm right. I have been pretty down latetly but one thing that is helping me is detaching, getting used to the idea of not being with W in the future. That has helped me, even tho that's not what I want. I was looking at my WAW last night and wondering who tha heck is this person? How could she have changed so fast? She is determined to end our M? Unlike you I argued, not often but I pointed out stuff that annoyed me. W did things differently, really can't explain it. So I guess we need a different approach. No arguing or arguing both seem to have negative outcomes. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
. Hope I'm right. I have been pretty down latetly but one thing that is helping me is detaching, getting used to the idea of not being with W in the future. That has helped me, even tho that's not what I want. I was looking at my WAW last night and wondering who tha heck is this person? How could she have changed so fast? She is determined to end our M? Unlike you I argued, not often but I pointed out stuff that annoyed me. W did things differently, really can't explain it. So I guess we need a different approach. No arguing or arguing both seem to have negative outcomes. Hang in there
