Compassion for a MLCer

[broken5150]

Well,

W called today and asked for paystubs so she can take to her lawyer to file for the D.

I had asked her if she is sure that this is what she wants. She replied “yes”. I then, for one more time asked if she would go to counseling and again, she said no! Her reply was “We we to counseling 12 years ago and it didn’t work”.

She said that the mere sight of me makes her sick and that she can’t hear my voice without getting into a rage. She still insists that OM is just a friend but, if she wanted him for something more than that, its none of my business.

She also wants me to go to HER lawyers office to sign papers for some type of agreement. LOL! YEAH RIGHT!

Why doesn’t she just have me served?

I knew once OM was in the picture, she was going to try to file. Then again, she’s been playing this card for almost a year! The same threat, the same ole line!

I remember at the beginning of this separation, she told me that it was just temporary and that eventually, we would re-new our vows but she “needed time to find herself, it was not me it was her”. She also made a comment about her not being well. When I tried to touch her then, she moved away like a had disease.

Through the year, she had been cycling back and forth that she wants me, then she doesn’t want me. There was also a time that she denied saying or texting all the nasty things she said. When I DID show her the texts, she replied with “Oh, want I meant to say was…”

She texted one time and said “ Move on with your life, find another woman”.

She denied that she texted it. I then showed it to her and said “ Oh I meant, get your life situated, but not with another woman”.

I mean REALLY???

Any input anyone?