JB has super-human DB'ing powers, I think. If anyone understands not being able to hold their tongue, it's me. And no, I don't think the WAS realizes how bizarro their thoughts/actions are at the moment. Instead, I think it's after the fact, often too late, when they realize how ridiculous they were.
Which reminds me, last night I was talking to a friend of mine...he's older than me, divorced for 8 years and has two older kids. Anyway, his wife was a WAS; he resisted in every way for quite some time, but finally gave into her wishes for a D. What I didn't know before he told me last night was that she quickly remarried and then quickly realized she had made a big mistake. She was divorced to the om within a year and a half and back knocking on his door. He gave it another shot in hopes of "saving his family," but in the end realized she just wasn't what he wanted/needed anymore. Just made me think of so many LBS here and what the future could look like.
I live a couple of hours north of D but am there weekly (my son plays in a soccer league in the area). Plus, a couple of my closest friends live there. It's my home away from home!
If anyone understands not being able to hold their tongue, it's me. And no, I don't think the WAS realizes how bizarro their thoughts/actions are at the moment. Instead, I think it's after the fact, often too late, when they realize how ridiculous they were.