I know you are right, and I admire jb for being able to restrain himself. I just couldn't help myself. I forgot to add that she became flippant and said she was going to cash our her portion of my retirement to pay off her car.

I think she'll cool off and come back around. However, there are times like last night when I don't want her to come back around.

I guess THAT is the cycle, right? LOL I get to a point where I don't want her around, then she becomes nice for a week or two and [censored] me back in, and then WHAM!

I wonder if the WAS even realizes they are doing it.

BTW lc, are you in the DFW area? Some of your posts makes me believe that you are.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012