I'm glad you had a good weekend with your wife and daughter. What happened last night sounds like classic WAS behavior. She doesn't know what she wants, so she pulls you in then pushes you away. She obviously didn't like hearing the truth from you that her plan doesn't sound so great. If she/y'all can afford it and things are staying out of court for the time being, then just let her do what she thinks she needs to do (I know, easier said than done). Hopefully, it's not a long-term lease so she can change her mind (again) if need be or in the case you two decide to move back in together.
She told you a good 180 you can work on...your offering and delivery of advice. jbnati is a a PRO at this with his wife (read up on his sitch). In the future, just try to listen and wish her the best. If she wants advice, she will ask for it (whether she'll take it is another thing).
Give her some time to cool off; she will be back around. In the meantime, I hope you have a good week! hugs, lc4
