And lastly, I do understand what you and others are saying Barb. In the past I have often allowed excuses be it culture or otherwise to allow way too much. This time I took control, recognized that mixed signals never mean anything good so I took the bull by the horns. I sent that message. It resulted in something bad that, yes, maybe could have or should have been ignored. But, now I know and can close this chapter. I'm proud of the way I handled it. It was left on a sad but friendly note. I told her I needed to end because I didn't want to say the hurtful things that werer in my head right now and then said our formal goodnight that we used to text to each other. Anyway,I manned up instead of living with hopes that never end well. Credit me there.
