I was DB'ing but just discovered an affair

[NTX_Dad]

Well it's been a crazy past seven days. 95% of it was fantastic. We went to the concert of Friday and had a wonderful time. They spent the night and ended up hanging out for most of Saturday, and came back Saturday night for a quick visit, and again visited on Sunday for 3-4 hours.

They even came by Monday evening and we went out for dinner.

We were getting along great. There was never any talk about the M or reconciliation, which is the way it should probably be.

Last night was a different story though. They showed up at the house and within 10 minutes they left. The W told me they are considering moving already! They have only been in their current apartment for three weeks. The new place will be significantly more expensive and the rent it will be about 60% of her take home pay. :-O

I shouldn't have given my opinion, but I couldn't help it. I told her that it didn't sound like a good idea. In an instant, she got visibly upset and told me that my comments are why we are divorcing. I told her I was just trying to help and she said she didn't need my help and that it was none of my business. She also said it was my "delivery" when I give my advice.

She quickly summoned our D and was out the door in a flash.

I get very confused when it goes from one extreme to the other. We got along very well the past couple of weeks. I know there's some emotional bond still, otherwise I don't know why she'd hang out so much the past week and invited me out for two nice evenings out. During the "dates" there was occasional hugs and even a couple of kisses, all initiated by her.