In my humble opinion, baby steps are more constructive than a "quick fix". It's all about quality over quantity. Taking it slow in dealing with the problems and issues will ensure that they are fixed properly.
Enjoy the dates and try not to have any expectations. Just have fun and enjoy the moment.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012