Sorry you find yourself here but you are in the right place. I'm new to this myself but first get the DR book and read it. Cultural issues are though but not hopeless so read the book and post often until you are no longer in moderation. Others with more experience will give you great advice. Hang in there.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden