I think you "overlooked" a lot of negatives and put them down to her being Asian when that is really not fair. Of course - I'm no expert but you have to be able to look at all the signs and assess a situation that is why it is so vitally important to go slow and keep your eyes open and your needs in check. So difficult when you are falling.
Anyway - you will heal and you will be surprised how quickly it will go. Grieve for what you are losing. Be glad for what it was.
Have you considered online dating? I chose that route after I got burned by someone who didn't want me. It helped sort out who really was interested. Just a thought...
