wow mrbond. I needed to hear that myself this am. I'm feeling the pain really bad off and on -- I needed a reminder that I do have some control. I like the way it was worded.

Cam ^^^^^^^^^ read bond's input again. Really really really simple but true. All WE can control as LBS is US. Our W's may not feel what we wish and so want them to feel right now, BUT we have to take control of ourselves. If we look weak, we look totally unattractive. Do you want her to remember you as a begging mess or a strong, attractive man who can live without her? Which man would YOU be more likely to return to one day? wink

Hang in there --- BUT DO THE WORK. DBing won't work if you keep breaking the cardinal rules!!!


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed