I completely agree with you. If I had the time I could ride it a little longer to work on myself before confronting her. I am admittedly still angry and still unstable. I go back and forth between feeling good, like my old self and feeling sick. So clearly I am not ready.
However, she wants to talk Friday about seriously selling the house. It's a long story but we lose $200K in equity if we sell it right now versus in 2013. She wants to move into a rental, quit her job so she can go to school full time and she wants us all to move together and ME support all of us during that time.
So she's forcing the issue. I don't see how I have a choice. I need to tell her that's fine but the OM has to go. I mean, how could she ever respect me if she looks me the eye and says fund my extramarital affair and I actually do it?
