Not going to post the recent coms, but there has been a lot of them.
After W told me of OM, I tried to remain dark, very dark, which is what I needed to do for me, and "was" working, but again after meeting her, and W throwing the usual ??? grenades into convo, I need to get back on track.
Since meeting we have had loads of email coms, and as most contained anger and bitterness from W, even though my "responses", not reactions were kind, considerate strong and confident, so I requested that she only contact me through my Solicitor. But hey as posted before, and as most say here, our WAS hear nothing of what we say!! W saw her solicitor on Monday morning, and then subsequently emailed me to tell me I would be expecting another letter, and then went off on one about the remainder of her stuff in the house. Again, seems like antagonistic venom spuing to me, so I have not replied.
The kids are still with me 10 out of 14 days, and they love the time with me, I love it too, tbh it makes me feel great and that I am a great dad, and that the kids see me as the grounded one. W continues to destroy her relationship with the kids IMHO, as last Thur W told D14 that she wished she had the balls to leave me sooner and that I controlled her (again as usual WAS, trying to justify her choice to herself and others) D14 said she didn't like that and that W tries to make her feel guilty over her choice to stay with me more. D14 also said her mum is so selfish and that everything continues to be about her. 14 year olds (esp girls) seem so mature at times, and I am very proud that D has found her own opinions and beliefs, and sticks to them. (very proud dad here!!!!!)
D14 also said that she would understand if I filed for D, although thinks her mum is pathetic for doing it so soon!
W is lost in herself IMHO, typical MLC, spray tan, new hairdo throwing herself into work, OM, deleting oldest friend (who she called sister) off fb the list goes on. Her coms to me have become angry, bitter and antagonistic, and not just about the kids now. I feel this is due to how I have been, i.e.. not bitter, angry, reactive etc, she cannot "bait" me and doesn't like it (W has admitted she expected me to be different!!), but you know what.........
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
