Saving the M and caring for a baby

[25yearsmlc]

if it's any comfort May, and it may not be much, but my h at one point said "w, but you sahm for 6 years (part time), AND left the partnership track," which h saw as a loss to HIM, not a sacrifice of mine...and therefore, he asked, "why should [he] "keep supporing that"? To which I said, "H, after a marriage of 25+ years, supporting you through TWO medical degrees PLUS crazy ass training residency hours and raising these 3 kids I popped out WHILE doing that thing called law school[i][i], the law seems to think I contributed. ..[/i]" [\ Frankly, I WANTED h to see a L so he could get some reality therapy...sheesh. , IT must have helped motivate him. That & seeing me feeling pretty empowered... MAY, No one can explain the way your h acted while married to you for years, and then the SUDDEN DRAMATIC changes during your pregnancy. I haven't seen it ANYWHERE else, so it's very hard to assess and advise. BUT I do know crappy, unfair comments when I see them....and so do you. No one here will judge any choice you make. Your h HAS made a lot of progress. Maybe he's falling back one step and next week will take 3 forward... I sure hope so, May (((( ))))