Originally Posted By: aeolianchaos

Read the N.U.T.S book a few days ago. Interesting ideas, but I can't say it rocked my world. Some of the stuff just seemed silly. But the emphasis on integrity and self-respect certainly resonated with me.


I've read it it too and it's clearly not on the same level as Passionate Marriage, and it's a bit "dumbed" down so I can certainly understand why you weren't impressed. To be honest, the writing wasn't that great either but that said, a lot of it outlined exactly what I had been trying to tell my H for years. The way the author explained it may have been simple, but my H finally got it. And this is a man with a Masters degree so he's not stupid. But when it comes to R's, apparently he needed it all spelled out in simple terms by another man.