Oddly enough, if you can get through this, this has the potential of being the best thing that could've happened in your M.
I know I've read that in more than one of my lovely infidelity books but I would have preferred MC, or something equally less traumatic to do the trick, because I can't get the image of my H with batch!t crazy out of my head. And I have a very developed imagination. Perfect.
Originally Posted By: jbnati
It does seem to be very commonplace for the OP to be a serious downgrade in an A. Without question, this rings true with the OW . I just hope she stays out of the picture entirely.
Yes, I'm not sure how good it should make me feel to come out ahead of that wingnut though.
And yes, so far she's been quiet for the past few days. Although, H was getting hang-ups from a blocked number on his office line about 4 days ago so he texted her (He showed me the text) and said that if it was her hanging up after he picked up, to stop calling him immediately because he did not want to hear from her EVER again in any way. The hang-ups stopped. Shocking.
Even in my teen years and early 20's, I never resorted to such nonsense with other boys or my H (and we broke up a lot) so I can't even imagine a woman in her late 30's to early 40's doing this kind of thing.
Originally Posted By: jbnati
I think your H is putting forth a sincere effort, but he has a serious uphill battle to earn your trust. I am pulling for you!
Thanks, jb. H definitely sounds more like the man I used to know many years ago. But honestly I'm so shell-shocked, I keep expecting him to bomb me again. I told him that, and he said he's more worried I'm going to bomb him now.
I told him that, and he said he's more worried I'm going to bomb him now. 
