lc, I'm sorry your stuck in limbo. I remember all to well how that feels because it was less than two weeks ago.
Anyway, I can't tell you what you should do because I don't know your H but I do know that in my experience, the times when I spoke from a place of strength and clarity and not from a place of fear or impatience, well those were the words actually reached my H. And that made a difference. So do what feels right but don't rush things just because you're tired or impatient because whatever you are doing, it is working. He is moving towards you. Yes, he is taking his sweet time but what you are doing is working.
Say what you need to say only because you know that it will lead you in the direction you need and want to go, and only you can decide what that is...
But yes, sometimes that means saying I'm ready to move forward.
