I said to my W today that she was the most important person in the world to me. And she responded with "you never made me feel that way"

How am I ever supposed to get past that or how will she ever see anything other than that????
Hope is pretty much lost now.

M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011