Ok, I just read this after posting on my own story....I wonder, maybe, if she's testing you. Last thing she wants is to come back and have you decide you don't want her after she makes herself vulnerable. And maybe she's testing to see if you'd choose your family over her or if your family would even accept her again or if it would be poison all around. My suggestion - tell her tgiving will be just the 3 of you. Then make a great, wonderful separate tgiving with your parents and daughter, no wife. And you can tell her that you appreciate her desire to reconcile, that you are still uncertain, but tgiving as a family is doable. However, you are not going to prematurely bring the whole family in on this until things are more settled and less emotional.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem
