" Think about it this way. If there was a girl who was interested in you and threw herself at you begging and pleading to go out with you, would you be attracted to them?
YOu need to start developing an "attitude". Kind of like a Tony Soprano thing. Get your b@lls back from your W. Be the man. You can do it.
Thanks Mr Bond. Definitely not - that is not attractive to anyone and I know what I just did was not attractive to my W. I guess in some stupid way I think that she is still attracted to me (which she has said she is), and if I tell her how committed I am to making this work then she will give it a go too. Completely wrong of me and goes against all DB principles. I am a fool. I'm just sad at the loss of this M, the loss of our future together, angry at myself for being like I was, angry at her for not giving me a chance and almost above all I miss her and my best friend so much that I feel (and know) I will never find what we had again.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011
