25yearsmcl- he got a L. He is really only concerned with the $$. Not custody and I am heartbroken over that. Who is this man I have been married to for 20 years??!!? I am continually surprised at what he does. I don't understand that but I am. What about his children? Has the OW and child taken mine and their places in his heart? I hope to get this sorted out some tomorrow with my L. I am sure he didn't tell his L the whole truth. We shall see.