DD,
Personally, I do not regret not dating during the limbo time. I did a lot of things for myself and did some healing and growing. It was a long time. But when we did D, it was far less emotional for me than the initial leaving.

As far as divorce...I did nothing to initiate and I don't regret that either.

I can look back and say that I don't regret the way that I handled things. I did my very best.

Try to use your "me" time wisely.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D