Thanks as always, JB. Every girl needs a guy friend like you.
Yes, I'm tired. Im tired of limbo, I'm tired of shuffling my kids back and forth, I'm tired of his "cake-eating." Flat dab worn out puts how I'm feeling perfectly. I just really don't know how long I'm willing to live like this, especially since he seems to be content to live this way indefinitely. As you said, does he want to be married, or not? Life is good for him right now...he gets to come around whenever he wants, eat here, watch TV, hang with the kids AND get some lovin' and then go back to his place. Plus, he keeps saying he's "trying" and he's "working on things." Ok...what does THAT mean? And why can't he tell me what I need to be working on?
I'm hoping the no lovin' boundary will help him miss me somewhat while at the same time help me continue to detach. In addition to that, I'm just going to carry on with my life and continue working toward my personal goals.