if he's really not going to SHOW UP and WORK, then I would rather he just fade out for now...know what I mean?
What good is a half ass fight about some money or a few terms changed, if all it really means is he's NOT dealing.
And so far, he's SO NOT dealing! Very frustrating. But i guess I'm saying 2 things. Grand scheme,
yes it's unfair. So is Africa.
2nd, unless and until he really truly wakes up WITH the energy to overcome the mess he has made
what's the point of him coming to the table with...not much?
Muddy the waters? Slow the process down?
Maybe that would be "better than nothing" and you'd feel better in the short run b/c it seems he cares
but IF it's only about money and not the REAL STUFF, I would rather it just end with your terms in place (so you and the kids are FINE and safe first & foremost)
and then, when the dust settles, he can figure out that he's made a series of HUGE mistakes.
At least in the meantime, you'll be alright and have less conflict and stress from seeing him
and OR, not seeing him BUT thinking you were going to ETC
Make sense?
So sorry--
((( )))
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