BTW - the fact that she could see that I was actually changing and still moved forward just lost all my respect for her. Regardless of how poorly I treated her and what a Nice Guy Syndromer I was, everyone deserves a second chance. So many people here have asked if I really want to save the marriage. I really really did for my kids but now it will take a miracle for her to regain my respect. At this point I think I am leaning towards not saving it.
I practiced criminal law for 3 years and NO, not everyone deserves a second chance.
If my h beat me, he would not get a second shot at my face.
If he did that to one of our kids, he would not deserve a 2nd chance. BUT THE IRONY/HYPOCRISY HERE, IS YOU WON'T GIVE HER A SECOND CHANCE...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
