One note from my post above regarding picking up D9 to meet the teacher... FIL didn't even acknowledge me when I went to get D9... I went to the house (my W's), rang the doorbell and D9 came to door... FIL did not come out of bedroom (apparently resting and trying to stay cool). I did attempt to engage by calling out to say "hey"... but nothing... ok... guess that answers any questions I might have had... expected, though... if what my W said was true about her family and friends opinion about me...
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Anyhow, notes from today...
My W responds to email regarding D9... letting me know when and where to pick D9 up on Sat...
And then... indicates that she wants to set up a schedule for my time with D9...
I'm thinking... wtf???! Not much to "schedule" when she's getting a document ready that I understand will state that I will have 20% custody which will not include any weekdays (or at least no overnights; due to school)... so weekends only for me... what's to schedule...?
And still scheduling kids social calender on what would be my time with kids... *sigh*...
What my W is trying to "schedule" is (Canadian) thanks giving with her family... not that I would say no... but don't TELL me that the kids are scheduled... ask me... I'll say yes... because it is a good time for the kids (fireworks, great food, family...)
bah...
Then I just get a bizarre email... addressed to a few "key" people (including OM1)... asking to sponsor my W and D13 on a fund raiser walk... of course I'd sponsor for a good cause and of course my W focuses on the cause and D13... also, it was not addressed to all of her email people... just weird how she'd include me in a bulk email, not by separate invitation to sponsor...
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*sigh*... yes, feel free to feedback that I'm focused too much on my W and trying to mind read...
My defense remains, I'm just looking for behavioral consistencies and / or changes...
My W also completely continues to avoid the "elephant" of D... making no comment one way or the other on getting everything ready to file... and side steps the elephant and even the sep agreement quite interestingly by attempting to schedule kid time...
Some changes, some consistencies...
None of that really matters... like I said, just making notes... I remain good in my course of actions and look forward to the future...
