if lives with OW still, he's not a WAS coming home...he's a prober & a cake eater, who wants to know that he's lost nothing, though he's cost you a personal fortune.
Until if and when he REALLY moves towards you, don't let THIS type of behavior and words confuse you. HIs actions are not confusing.
Good luck, find AND KEEP that balance.
Be happy. Shut the door on him while he's with OW.
If he comes knocking on your door, you don't have to have it locked. But you must stop looking over your shoulder at someone who is, by action,
with OW.
((( )))
You are so right. I must find the strength to detach from his words, because as of this moment his actions are directed at his girlfriend.
when I detach I am happy and at peace. H doesn't occupy head space. Someone else does and that is my problem too. But I am working on it. Day by day. I can do it :-)
Work is so stressful and frustrating right now that thinking about my sitch actually is a mental break - how messed up is that!!!!!!
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
